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  • FOR ME, FOR YOU, FOR US: Relationship Visioning

    posted: Mar. 09, 2022.

    FOR ME, FOR YOU, FOR US Relationship Visioning by Dr. Bill If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundation Read more
  • TRAIN YOURSELF TO BE NON-DEFENSIVE

    posted: Jan. 31, 2022.

    TRAIN YOURSELF TO BE NON-DEFENSIVE Using the Science of Habit Change and Neuroplasticity by Dr. Bill Would you like to move your relationship skills further along the path of mindful awareness, conscious intention, Read more
  • DR. BILL’S INTENTIONAL RELATING FORMULA

    posted: Jan. 25, 2022.

    DR. BILL’S INTENTIONAL RELATING FORMULA All You Need to Know about Getting and Keeping a Great Relationship. Great relationships evolve from mindful awareness, psychological flexibility, self-management, and conscious and intentional choices that Read more
  • ACTIVE CONSTRUCTIVE RESPONDING

    posted: Jan. 25, 2022.

    ACTIVE, CONSTRUCTIVE RESPONDING by Bill and Robin Shearer Let’s start with a self-test. Think about your average response when your partner is talking to you. Be honest with yourself. You don’t have to Read more
  • PRACTICING DIALOGUE – and a favorite dialogue exercise

    posted: Jan. 01, 2022.

    Practicing Dialogue – and a favorite dialogue exercise by Dr. Bill and Robin Jack and Elaine do well together, but like many other couples, their occasional fights are so intensely volatile they threaten Read more
  • Two Human Qualities that Impact Relationships

    posted: Dec. 20, 2021.

    Two Human Qualities that Impact Relationships by Dr. Bill Newsflash—all humans are imperfect! Yes, you too are imperfect. All of us humans deny, distort, and falsify reality. We are good at self-deception, Read more
  • LADDERS OF INFERENCE

    posted: Dec. 19, 2021.

    Ladders of Inference By Dr. Bill Have you noticed that you feel totally loved and loving one moment, and completely caught up in fight, flight, freeze, or appease modes the next? Or Read more
  • VERBAL AIKIDO

    posted: Dec. 12, 2021.

    VERBAL AIKIDO Finding your inner smile, again, and again, and again! By Dr. Bill “Aiki is not a technique to fight with or defeat an enemy. It is the way to reconcile the Read more
  • Be The Mr. Rogers of Your Relationship

    posted: Nov. 20, 2021.

    Be The Mr. Rogers of Your Relationship by Dr. Bill  Charlie and Jan were at it again. It was hard to say who started it, who was most reactive, or who Read more
  • "You Just Don't Understand Me by Dr. Bill

    posted: Nov. 15, 2021.

    “You Just Don’t Understand Me”  By Dr. Bill George is frustrated, and often depressed. He wants to tell Susan about things that upset him in their relationship, but it seems pointless. Read more
  • "Meltdown" by Dr. Bill

    posted: Nov. 09, 2021.

    “Meltdown” by Dr. Bill It was a warm sunny late June day, 1991. Robin and I were close to finishing our certification training in Imago Relationship Therapy, a very powerful and Read more
  • FINDING MY AARDVAARK

    posted: Nov. 01, 2021.

    FINDING MY AARDVARK Becca was exasperated. She wanted Andy to hear her. She wanted to be understood. She wanted him to see her point. Why was he being so difficult? She Read more
  • Your Emotional Intelligence and the Future of Your Relationship

    posted: Aug. 07, 2021.

    Your Emotional Intelligence and the Future of Your Relationship  By Couples Therapists Bill and Robin Shearer Most long-term relationships will not be successful. It's estimated that 70% to 75% of long-term relationships Read more
  • HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE

    posted: Dec. 19, 2020.

    HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE  Bill and Robin Shearer     At first glance the title of this piece might not make much sense. If it had a comma in the middle it would read Read more

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